Breast Ironing Is Child Abuse|Where to find help?



I have just read about breast ironing and am more furious than shocked. Although I was oblivious to any such practices but I am not shocked as I am from a culture where mothers and elder ladies of the family go to crazy lengths to shape a baby’s head or nose or lengthen their neck. I am against all that and so is my family. I have also heard about Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) and it hurts my heart to think of such cruel practices. I am glad people are speaking up against these tabooed topics and creating awareness. This is my share of creating awareness around the breast ironing.

I am all for respecting cultures, but only until they are harmless, which this practice is obviously not. While I am more inclined toward using terms like horrid, barbaric and disgusting in relevance to this topic, I will try to maintain a professional tone in this blog so that my opinion is not dismissed as that of a mother raged with hormones.

What is Breast Ironing?

It is a cultural practice of ironing the breasts of young girls, mostly pubescent girls with hot objects to suppress or delay the growth of breasts in an effort to protect them from sexual abuse. In the areas this is practiced men believe that when young girls develop breast they are ready for sex and thus are considered as fair game. Thus mostly the mothers of young girls or other elderly women of the family in attempt to hide any signs of pubertal development practice breast ironing. The tools used to iron the breast are heated wooden spatulas, bananas, stones, coals and such items.  This torture goes on for months and sometimes years.  Girl child is also made to constantly wear a really tight strap over her budding breasts in an attempt to suppress growth of her breasts, which is suffocating and painful. This is a kind of violence against women which is carried by women and passed down to generation.

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As it always starts with something innocent, this practice has its roots in breast messages to ease the pain of nursing. Increase in sexual abuse of young girls leads to this practice for their safety from sexual perpetrators. In the African countries like Nigeria where it is practiced, there is no minimum age for marriage defined by law and in poor families, young girls are married off the moment they start showing signs of sexual maturity. This abusive act is also practiced by well-wishing female family members to delay childhood marriages as otherwise, females have no say or power in those societies.

Where it is practiced?

This is practiced all over ten regions of Cameroon and most regions of West, Central and South Africa. Immigrants take their culture with them so unreported this practice has also been introduced on a very small scale in UK, USA and Canada.

Medical consequences

Breast ironing and its impact has not been yet studied in any scientific research but doctors are of opinion that it does not delays onset of puberty and prospect of rape. However, it is extremely painful and does damages the tissues which can contribute towards cyst, difficulty breast feeding and even development of breast cancer.

Psychological Impact

Again there have been no scientific researches to analyze the psychological damage this breast ironing causes to the victim but doctors, activists and social workers have discussed about its implications. Victims who have spoken about the issue have reported to suffer significant amount of depression and anxiety after being inflicted with breast ironing. It does not only cause physical pain, which I can only imagine it is also a trauma as any other physical abuse directed towards child.

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Breast-Ironing-child-abuse

This practice contributes towards with the false belief that sexual abuse or rape is somehow victim’s fault and they could have done something differently to protect themselves from the abuse, directing the guilt and blame towards the victim. It has reportedly also damaged the body image of the victims and had brought the feeling of shame in them about their body, sexuality and their inner strength. If they cried aloud out of pain, they were labeled as weak and bringing shame to the family. It also damages the sexual experiences of girls in later life and contributes towards a negative perspective towards men and sex. Experts agree that it can cause depression and PTSD in childhood and even years later in adult life.

Is there a law against it?

I am surprised that it is not technically illegal. While there is no specific law against this practice, it surely is child abuse and person inflicting the damage to the child can be held accountable in court for child abuse, both physical and mental (and perhaps sexual).

Where to find help?

If you are being subjected to breast ironing, or you were a victim of this cruel cultural practice, please know that you are not alone and there is help available. Please call to The Child Help National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800) 422-4453 for USA and Canada, 0800 1111for Childline UK and 1800 55 1800 for Kids Help Line Australia.

The professional help is available 24/7, you just need to make a call. If you are in UK and above the age of 18, you can also call the free, confidential Action on Elder Abuse helpline on 0808 808 8141. For Australia You can call at 131114 at Lifeline Australia.

15 thoughts on “Breast Ironing Is Child Abuse|Where to find help?

  • April 3, 2019 at 4:43 am
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    Wonderful post however I was wondering if you could write a litte more on this subject? I’d be very thankful if you could elaborate a little bit more. Many thanks!

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  • April 8, 2019 at 9:50 pm
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    This is practiced in Africa and its wrong. Glad lots of people are speaking up against this I’ll practices. Just because its been that way doesn’t men’s it should continue . a change needs to be done

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  • April 11, 2019 at 10:13 am
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    I love it when people come together and share opinions, great blog, keep it up.

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  • April 11, 2019 at 5:33 pm
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    Wow I knew about FGM but never breast ironing! This is awful. Lets put a stop to this, thanks for raising awareness. I’ve also shared on my twitter.

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    • April 13, 2019 at 3:24 pm
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      Thank you so much! When I first learned about it I was horrified too

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  • May 1, 2019 at 7:53 am
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    I never even heard of this barbaric way of oppressing girls sexual development😨😰 thank you so much for raising a little more awareness to this!

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    • May 1, 2019 at 2:10 pm
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      I appreciate your support, please help spread the awareness by sharing it as much as possible

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  • June 11, 2019 at 12:33 am
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    I think breast ironing is a terrible practice and I don’t support it. In the context of the culture and the unfortunate realities of the society in which they live, some women do this to protect their daughters from being raped or being premturely married off, both of which happen to large numbers of girls.
    I think breast ironing should be banned, but, I think changing the root cause: male driven practices of child marriage, rape, and violence toward women of all sorts is important to speak out against and eradicate.

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    • June 11, 2019 at 10:29 pm
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      Thank you so much, Sarah, for stopping by. Yes, you are right, root causes should be dealt with first, sadly countries like Nigeria do not have a legal minimum age of marriage which means child marriage is being legal there. I have a guest post on the very topic if you would like to check out and share it for the purpose of ceating awareness. https://gurrusays.com/stop-child-marriage-says-nigerian-blogger/ Once again thanks.

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